FEELING OF FIRST LOVE AND LAST LOVE

How Last Love is True Love Rather Than First Love

A deep,tender,ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities , or a sense of underlying oneness.

The human heart is a magnificent thing.

 

One minutes you can feel absolutely lost, breathless and like your heart is about to split in two over heartbreak. You don't know how you're going  to move on, or even make it through the day.

But somehow, someway, you make it through the day. Soon enough , a week has passed. Then the next minute, You don't even know how you fit the other person in your heart..

 

When we reach puberty and stat to realize the opposite sex exists, our life is all about a set of new first: first kiss, first dance, first hug, first date , first time to meet a person that you felt something , first time to held hands and yours"first time".

One of the most beautiful and tragic experience that define your life is your first love. It's beautiful because everything is new . You're experience first time a new kind of love , a new set of emotion and trust in someone not in your family , loyal for someone . First love is great .

But first love also leads to that cry your heart out until you can't breathe, eat gallon of chocolates and ice cream aching breakup and loss everything . No, a breakup is never a party. However the first breakup with your first love might be one of the most painful experience   and got depressed .Some of us don't get over it. Our lives are filled with watching movies , spend time alone, always remembered the lovable moment which they spend together.

We carry that baggage from one relationship to the next in hope of someone " curing us" from our pass ailments.

As do all , we learn from our experiences. In our early lives, we start to figure out the difference between good and bad , the difference between good characteristics and bad characteristics and the difference between good people and bad people. 

You may or may not love the second and third person you date,but they will be someone you let into your life. They will teach you thing about yourself and about dating that you didn't know about with  the other person. They will make you smile, make you laugh  again and will dull the baggage of that once -requited love. Your insecurities that were turned on after your first love slowly start to diminish, and you to feel special for that person.  

Eventually , you will need to reach and be content with the calm, resting state or risk being alone for the rest of your life. Realize that when you're in love,it's because you are choosing to love and you may have a chance of holding it all together. 

Everything happens for a reason. Every person that you encounter, every person you date, comes into your life and teaches you a lesson. Your first love is called just that because it is part of a series of “firsts.” You get a experience in very step of life and a love.

The second time around, you know what to expect. You know what to look for in someone you want to be with. You have the confidence to know what you want and know what you deserve. The relationship helps you prove to yourself that you can open up again, and you can find something truly amazing. 

And soon, your heart will slowly heal from the baggage and the bruising of your first love. It’ll be bursting with happiness, and all your past caution will flee.

"First love is a kind of vaccination which saves a man from catching the complaint the second time"

"Being someone's first love may be great, but to be their last is beyond perfect".

             "A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is                       the last love of a man."