HOW TO OVERCOME THE MISUNDERSTANDING

The ways to overcome the misunderstanding between your love 




"The worst distance between two people is a misunderstanding". 
"If a man cannot understand the beauty of life, it is probably because life never understood the beauty in him" - Criss Jami,Killosophy
 "Fame is finally only the sum total of all misunderstanding that can gather around a new name,"
Rainer Maria Rilke           

Every relationship goes through the ups and downs. Each and every couple faces the obstacles in their life. Sometimes you agree and your boyfriend or a husband disagree and Vice Versa like to spend money, how much to spend time, how you talked each other.It's always a good idea to resolve the problem whether it becomes large. 

How to feel when you suffer from misunderstanding  

When you suffering from this situation, you feel frustrated you want to spend some time alone.Didn't want to talk to talk anyone in that situation. 
You and your partner weren't able to communicate very well whether you do so in past time. 
You feel hurt every time. You just feel like killing death. when you didn't resolve this issue you just feel like this and your relationship is also suffering at that time period. 


So you and your partner take a time and talk with calm nature and resolve the issue with them...

So focus on some ways related to your problem.

Listen carefully 
 
To listen to your partner more carefully because it is the key to clearing the misunderstanding in your relationship. Instead of waiting for him to stop talking and to put effort to start the conversation, make it the main points of focus. Listening is an important part of the communication without listening to him properly you understand wrong and then they become the point of the fight. So make sure you listen to him /her properly while giving the answer.


Expectation 

To create the mutual expectation with your partner is not good for the relationship because if your partner is not complete or to fulfill the expectation then you feel hurt and argue with your partner, so this is the another element for the misunderstanding. So you have to behave like a practical person not like a fairy tales. If you do a thing right and you create expectation like a small one so your partner not feels anger or frustrate And the relationship is safe. And the misunderstanding isn't created in relation. 


Be patience   

Granted, isn't hard to remember this but you have to be patience in the relationship. If your partner is short tempered so have to be patience and calm at that time when he anger. This is a very hard thing in the relationship, Don't take a quick decision while you aren't properly sure. If someone deals with the patients in the relationship then he/she solve any issue under the relationship. 


Discuss the issues 

To discuss the issue is very important to overcome the misunderstanding under the relationship. When you and your partner wasn't talking about the problems or issues so they do not solve any much time. So to overcome the misunderstanding and to want a lasting relationship, then to take a sit and talk about the issue or to resolve by anyhow.


Don't be judge

As so many relationships in one of them judge the another person.And they think always right and his/her partner is wrong.They didn't do things right and they always her/him on their past. This is not good for the healthy relationships.




We all have a fear of losing her/his love,, I think when you read this article then you take some point how to overcome the misunderstanding. I know this is very difficult to suffer from this phase. But you have to strong and always love your partner ...

Stay blessed and Stay happy......... 

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